LGBTQ+
Your terms.
Always.
Disclosure, visibility and matching stay in your control. Built with you in the room.
Then something
lines up.
A few people a day. Each one arrives with why: shared intent, shared style, shared small things.
The idea
Mostly aligned. Never identical.
We match on what lasts — then leave room for the person you didn’t expect.
Every match ships with its reasoning. Alignment on identity, intent and relationship style does the heavy lifting; the prompts carry the personality.
A few, each day
Not a feed.
A short list.
- Ceramics
- Slow mornings
- Looking for a partner
In tune on the things that don't change.
Sample profiles · 1 of 3 · this is the entire daily set
Everything you need to meet someone is free.
Free
Your daily list. Every match, and message them for as long as you like. Discreet mode.
Kindrd+
More room, not more access — up to 500 people you fit rather than 15 a day, the profiles that viewed you, and a boost each month.
7 days free, then £7.99/month
There is a third option. It’s at the end.
Also inside
Not everything
is a date.
Kindrd Social is a full social network in the same app — a feed, communities, and queer-friendly events you can actually attend. Free for everyone; no pressure to pair off.
Seen only by
who you choose.
- 18+ only — a date of birth at sign-up, not a checkbox
- City-and-radius distance only — never precise GPS
- Per-field identity privacy + discreet mode
- One-tap block & report
- Like-note abuse filtering + a human on every report
- Nothing about you is sold
Private by default, in the ways that matter here.
In phase.
Free
Your daily set, every match, unlimited messaging, discreet mode. £0.
Kindrd+
500 people you fit, not 15 a day. Who viewed you. A monthly boost. 7 days free, then £7.99/month
Founding member
One payment. Plus, for life.
While Kindrd is small: a single payment of £50 buys lifetime Kindrd+ — every current and future perk. When this era ends, so does the price.
Become a founding memberOr start free — matching & messaging cost nothing.
18+ · private · free to match
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