Guides
Practical writing on queer dating — no listicles padded to rank, no fear-mongering. The advice we'd give a friend.
Most dating apps optimise for time spent swiping. Relationship-first design optimises for leaving — together. Here's the difference in practice.
4 min read
Skip the CV energy. A practical guide to bios and prompts that read like a person — with examples for queer daters.
5 min read
A practical guide to dating apps as a trans or non-binary person — controlling who sees you, handling disclosure on your terms, and filtering for people who already get it.
6 min read
Fifteen first dates with built-in conversation, low pressure, and an easy exit — because 'drinks?' is a habit, not a plan.
4 min read
Verification, scam patterns, meeting safely, and the settings that matter — dating-app safety without the fear-mongering.
5 min read